Life as a hat is about finding your path, but before we get started, I want to make something clear.
I’m not here to help direct you to your perfect career or the right hobbies to make you marketable.
Don’t get me wrong–I would love if becoming more free led you to find the interests that make you happy and make you money at the same time. The goal here isn’t, though, to put you on a path to the right 9 to 5 for the next forty years. I want you out of the 9 to 5 (or, 7 to 6 with commute for most of us.) I want to give you freedom, even when you’re not yet sure what you’ll do with freedom when you have it.
That brings us to Life as a Hat’s first post. What is freedom, why do we want to be free, and how do we get there?
I started thinking about freedom when I was a few years out of college but hadn’t felt like I found my “calling” yet. I had skills, but I didn’t have passions. I had interests, but I didn’t have ambitions to monetize them.
I’m starting to think that’s okay.
It turns out, some pretty smart people agree with me.
We’re ambivalent about work because in our capitalist system it means work-for-pay (wage-labor), not for its own sake… For most of us, a paying job is still utterly essential — as masses of unemployed people know all too well. But in our economic system, most of us inevitably see our work as a means to something else: it makes a living, but it doesn’t make a life. — Gary Gutting, The New York Times
So, freedom. When I talk about it here on Life as a Hat, I mean the ability to make choices without wondering how I’ll put food on the table. I mean “F*ck you!” money–the ability to leave any situation where I’m being taken advantage of, whether that’s on the job or in a relationship. Freedom is being able to say that I choose where I am and whom I’m with because I want to be there. Freedom means the people around me can trust that I want to be there with them.
Freedom sounds pretty damn good to me.
It doesn’t come by magic, though, or by ambition, or by the right Etsy page, or the right credit card, or the right connections at the right farmer’s market.
We get freedom when we cultivate habits and skills that remove us from the bondage of trading hours of our life for money. That’s it.
I’m not free yet. I’m not even close. I’m learning, and I’m trying, though. I’m starting on my path.
And I want you to come with me.